Break the Rules. Tear Shit Down. Cause an Upset, Bitch!
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Break the Rules. Tear Shit Down. Cause an Upset, Bitch!

11270492_1102635163085338_541379170976427836_oBig breath. You ready for what I’m about to say here? I know you’re going to like it … a lot … even though you very well may HATE it at first!

Here goes:

Your stuff?

Is still pretty fucking boring.

And okay, don’t worry- me too at times! God knows I publish some stuff that NOBODY seems to respond to or click like on (PLEASE LIKE ME!!) and when I look back over it at times I am just about set to fall asleep right there on the table! And I wonder what on earth sort of trip of boring-ness I must have been on to put that shit out there.

Or sometimes the opposite happens, and I don’t mean the opposite meaning EVERYBODY LOVES ME (please!) but more that my stuff is not boring it’s just WEIRD … or way TOO ranty … or random … or (ugh, ths happens a LOT) just freaking REPETITIVE.

I mean really?

Is that all I have to say? FUCKING TAKE ACTION, NOW, ON THE STUFF THAT MATTERS TO YOU!

Yep.

That’s about all I actually have to say! That is literally MY ENTIRE BUSINESS and everything I do both free and paid. Which is kind of awesome, but also, at times, kind of worrisome!

Shouldn’t I have more than one thing to say?! Well … not really … your message is your message, right?! So whatever it is? It is.

But.

I digress.

We came here to talk about you, and yes, what I wanted to say is, well, you’re being bland.

Still.

And you know it.

Sigh.

And sometimes, sure, the REAL you creeps out, like a sneaky little bitch that just won’t be shoved back in its place and you say something fucking AMAZING and raw and so damn from the heart and within you you just KNOW that this?

This is what you were meant to be doing, what you were born for no less!

And then one of two things happens:

1) Nobody really responds or gets it, and so back in your box you go

2) People DO respond and get it and even like or love it, but for some unknown reason (FEAR or just a simple lack of commitment to ACTION?!) … back in your box you go.

Either way, enough, no more, fertig, fini, done with it.

Because I said so okay!

But here is what it’s really about:

You wanna make MONEY … big money? You wanna get KNOWN … on a HUGE scale? You wanna go to bed each night feeling fucking AWESOME about who you are and what you’re doing and just knowing that you know that you KNOW that you’re doing the real work that MATTERS and that you were born for?

Well then baby.

C’mon!

Time to break some mother-fucking rules about messaging, about what to say or not say online, about how YOU think that YOU have to show up and act, about how business and life and women and ALL that good shit should be!

Time to tear some shit down, up, every which way! Time to tear down the walls of ‘professionalism’ in business, or boundaries, or keeping people at arms distance from you because hey! It’s BUSINESS. Time to tear down the walls that mean people don’t get to know you, not REALLY, and therefore can’t relate to you, not REALLY, and therefore don’t GIVE a fuck about you.

Not at all.

And then?

Time to cause an upset, bitch.

Time to rock the pot and stir the pot FAST, not just because it can be fun (and really it is SO fun and I think that alone is a damn good reason!) but also because if you actually stood up and said what you think, and shared your TRUTH?

Well that’s just what would happen.

And no, quite honestly, it’s not because you have anything magical to say. Don’t worry, me either!

It’s because NOBODY SPEAKS THE FUCKING TRUTH AROUND HERE.

And so when you’re the one person – the ONE person – in your niche or industry or the world in general who actually says what people need to hear, who actually shares her own shit without fear of ‘what will people think’, who actually says what NEEDS TO BE SAID and does it with heart and with soul and with ALL your personal power well then honey?

An upset is caused.

Shit gets torn down.

Rules are broken.

And a REVOLUTION IS BEGUN.

So let’s break it down. REALLY simple like. 3 thing you need to get your sweet butt onto NOW if you’re serious about creating a business that is based around YOU BEING YOU.

1. Every day. Show up and say what needs to be said.

This is you, quite simply, getting your message out. Short, long, written, spoken, audio, doesn’t matter. This right here, my daily blog? That’s me messaging. My YouTube 3-minute selfie no-makeup vids I do most days now? That’s me messaging.

Don’t know what to say? WHATEVER IS ON YOUR MIND. It is VERY much just show up, open your mouth, and talk about what’s going on, or what you think, or what you’ve been journaling on. Your beliefs, your goals, what needs to be DONE for success to happen, and so on.

Anything. Whatever. But make it freaking REAL and RAW. And don’t worry right now about how this will make you money! People don’t buy what you DO they buy who you are. Just think about that for a minute!

Which brings us to:

2. Make a POINT of saying in public what you think in private.

The stuff that goes through your mind, that you think about your industry or about business or about life or that you think about YOU (and boy is that a mess at times) and the stuff you’re scared of people KNOWING because it makes you look … whatever … and the stuff you just want to scream and shout about because what the actual FUCK?

Share that stuff.

In other words: be real and say what you actually think! Nobody else dares to. This alone will position you as the leader in your niche! People want you to be fucking real, to be human with ALL your flaws and also all your AWESOMENESS and they want to be told the TRUTH about what it takes and what they need to hear.

Also: this is a great way of pissing off people who are NOT and never will be your ideal clients. Good.

3. BREAK THE RULES in what you create and sell.

When selling. For the love of God. ONLY sell stuff you are deeply passionate about and in love with and just so EXCITED to get out there! Or? It won’t freaking sell! Of course it also has to match what people WANT and will pay you for. But the ENERGY of you in there? Don’t underestimate that stuff.

Side note: if you’re not consistently doing points 1 and 2, your stuff won’t sell. Period.

Also: when selling. Do not ask what can I GET or what do I have to give in order to GET. Ask, simply, what can I give. What else? What else? What ELSE?

Make it so ridiculously hell yeah awesome that people just HAVE TO BUY because it’s amazing. And cool. And fun. And NECESSARY to their dreams and goals but also? Fucking awesome.

And really, that’s it.

Your mission for today.

Do these 3 things.

And then try and repeat, yeah?

Time to cause an upset, bitch! And be the leader you were born to be.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play!

Kat x

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