Just Admit It
You’ll never be happy accepting the things you’re accepting, you know?
Life is not SUPPOSED to be about acceptance; not when acceptance is a word you use to make yourself feel better about the fact that what you really mean?
Is shutting up and putting up.
Imagine if –
For all of the things you currently ACCEPT (endure!!) –
You decided –
Just for a day –
(And then another) –
To allow what you really want.
What you deeply crave.
What you MOST desire.
To open yourself up to knowing that if it’s been planted in your soul, on your heart, in your every cell then that means it’s not only possible but it’s also ALLOWED. For you.
What would be different right now, in your life, if you had consciously allowed the money … the joy … the love … the freedom … the ALIGNMENT … to flow? If you’d made a decision, at some point, that no. You weren’t going to simply ACCEPT that what you were accepting was, well, what you had to keep accepting!
What would be different right now?
It’s an interesting point to ponder, but here’s what actually matters:
What COULD be different moving forward.
Everything you say –
Everything you do –
(Or do not)
Is what is right now creating your FUTURE. So, let me ask you:
Are you happy with the future you’re right now putting together for yourself. Is it WHAT YOU ALWAYS DREAMED OF??! Do you look down the path that you’re traveling right now in business – in fitness – in your relationships – in how you spend your days – in the kind of lifestyle you lead – and do you calmly, confidently, EXCITEDLY think YES?
YES, this is how it’s supposed to be!
YES, this is what I always wanted!
YES, this. is. GOOD.
Or do you worry –
Just a little –
(And maybe a lot)
That this path kinda, well, you’re a little hesitant to say but actually when you think about where it’s all headed for you based on the fucking CERTAINTY that what you’re creating is what you will GET, well this path actually.
I wonder why it is that you DON’T allow in the things you really want. What do you think?
Why DON’T you just speak up for what you believe in?
Why DON’T you actively seek the kind of love you dream of?
Why DON’T you INSIST on creating the kind of body you’d love to have …?
On doing the sort of travel you think would be amazing …?
On living in the kind of place you’ve always wanted to …?
Of doing the deep fucking WORK you know you’re meant to, and also on getting it all the way OUT there in the way you ‘one day’ intend to?
Can I tell you?
One day is a fucking fantasy baby. You KNOW this!! It never comes and then you die.
But here’s what I understand (and boy do I understand, do I get it, have I done it!) about success, about pursuing your REALLY big scary dreams, about creating your version of ‘it all’:
It doesn’t fucking happen by thinking about it.
By freaking WAITING. Goddamn it, you’re already GOOD enough, you’re SMART enough, and people like you! And if you wanna argue that then just DON’T, because it’s only when you believe in and act on NOW that you can actually NOW create what you want!
What I understand, what I KNOW, what I know I need to hear for myself today and also need to share with you today:
You need to admit it already. These dreams, these desires, these URGES and callings you harbour in your soul, you need to just fucking OWN them. You can do this RIGHT FUCKING NOW, okay?
Grab your journal and pen. (Of course!)
What do I finally ADMIT to myself that I want, more than ANYTHING? Do it for EVERY AREA of your life. Or, you know, just the parts you care about 😉
And when you ask yourself this question, ask it FULLY, OPENLY, and then answer it HONESTLY.
You don’t need to do it with an aggressive overly-hyped up will-never-actually-follow-through sort of way.
It doesn’t have to be a big deal … even though of course it’s a huge fucking big deal!
It just … is.
What it is.
Just admit it.
Breathe it out.
Sigh with relief.
Doesn’t it feel BETTER to just be HONEST with yourself about what you want? See how you now just have a STARTING point to work from, instead of walking around LYING to yourself, SHUTTING UP and PUTTING UP, settling not only for what you’re currently living with but settling also for what you’re CREATING?
I mean, it’s one thing to live with the NOW you created YESTERDAY, but Why in God’s good name would you deliberately continue to create that now if it’s not one that fucking knocks your socks off?!
Are you THAT stupid?
Or is it just that, until now, it’s never FULLY occurred to you that belief is a choice?
Repeat after me:
Belief is a choice.
DESERVEDNESS is inherent, but also: it’s a fucking CHOICE! (And yes you must do the work to deserve the outcome, but it’s a helluva lot easier to do the work when you CHOOSE to believe you deserve the outcome!)
You can go about your day now –
As most will.
And you can continue on your way now –
As most will.
And you can feel a nice warm fuzzy feeling at having skim-read – or maybe even actually read! – something that moved you, for a moment.
And it will all be … NICE. And what you’ll continue to create, in every area of your life? Well obviously it will be whatever it is you’re now creating. Your future is guaranteed, you know! Just look at your now, and the nows that came before it.
You’re going to get more.
Only you’ll be older.
And whatever is now expanding, growing, deepening in your life; both good and bad?
Will expand, grow and deepen further.
But there is another possibility.
You can change things.
You can admit to yourself, today, what you really want. Just breathe it out baby!
And then you can COMMIT to yourself, today, that you’re now going to allow it.
If you are ready, and you choose to commit, then seriously? FUCKING COMMIT.
This does not mean nod your head and keep reading. It means – FUCKING COMMIT! At the very least you can take the trouble to write it down for yourself!
And once you commit, well it’s obvious, isn’t it? Things are going to have to change.
You will NO LONGER ACCEPT that which you’ve been accepting which you KNOW is not what you want.
Do you have to tear your whole life apart, right now, today?!
But you have to change the direction in which you’re pointed internally.
You have to set a firm intention for what you’re now allowing.
You have to do the DAILY inner work to RE-set yourself on that path. If you can’t commit to daily inner work to create the life you want … the life you want won’t commit to you.
And then you have to start paying daily attention. Asking daily questions. Moving slowly, perhaps, but CERTAINTY, for sure, in the direction you’ve now decided to go. And most of all changing your thinking, where this new path just becomes ‘how it is; how it will be’. A done deal.
You will ALWAYS get what you expect to get, I say that a lot.
But here’s the sentence that follows on from that:
What you expect to get will always be a product of what you accept you’ll get.
Stop contracting into acceptance when acceptance equates to SHUTTING UP AND PUTTING UP.
Expand today into allowance.
Breathe it in baby!
ALL your dreams are possible, but if you want it? You better fucking go claim it.
Life is Now. Press Play.
Revolutionary Fucking Leader looking for a #tribe of like-minded women you can mastermind with, collaborate with, learn with and EXPAND into abundant ALLOWANCE with? Come join your Tribe —> www.katloterzo.com/thetribe