Success Mindset


When I was first building my business online, I was making over 35k a MONTH before I even noticed. I literally remember sitting down one day to go through my numbers and realising for the FIRST TIME that I’d built a multi-6-figure location free all online business … and I hadn’t even seen it coming.

There’s a lesson here, about how truly successful people work, about how those who are never going to make it work, and about the attitude you need to have to YOUR work if you want to be the former.

I read a GREAT quote this morning, more of a statement, really, but so on point that I had to right away stop reading the article and start writing this, because all I could think was YES.


That is exactly what happened and how it works and it’s also why I KNOW I will always ALWAYS be successful, at anything I’ve already set my mind to and so much more yet to come.

If you already do this, live like this, do BIZ like this, then good news:

You and I, we’re the same baby! Always gonna own it. NOTHING will stop us. Head down butt up so busy doing the WORK that we almost don’t notice what was building up around us.

{A motherfucking EMPIRE!}

Anyway, the statement I read was simple:

“Do the work, move on, repeat. Never look back to see if success is running after you – it never is unless you’re too busy working to notice” (Victor Pride)

The absolute truth of this is so important, yet 99.99% of wannabe entrepreneurs, leaders, creators, yes EVEN IN THIS TRIBE I dare say, will never get it.

They do it the other way.

Take action, look around to see if it worked, spit the dummy when it doesn’t, or else spiral down into some woe is my bullshit about why it works for EVERYONE ELSE BUT NOT THEM and they must not be GOOD enough or COOL enough or SMART enough or LUCKY enough or they’re just DOOMED to FAIL!

Ever entertained that sort of way of thinking? INDULGED in the thinking of unsuccessful people?

Stop it.

Because here is what is true for those of us born to win who ACTUALLY ALSO FUCKING WIN. Side note: bing born to win don’t mean it’s gonna just happen for you. You still have to do the work baby, and you HAVE to have that all in never-say-die and I won’t QUIT till I die attitude.


What is TRUE.

And why this statement resonated with me so deeply.

When I was building my first online business, Woman Incredible, my fitness business, as mentioned at the start of this post, I literally didn’t even NOTICE just how far I’d come for the first several years. I was making over 35k a month before I even remotely acknowledged or absorbed that I had a business almost certainly on its way to a million dollars a year in revenue.

I remember the early stages when things WOULDN’T seem to grow, when my list stayed at 109 subscribers exactly (?!) for 9 freaking months, when I managed to take 26 months to create my first online product (e-book: Secrets of Lasting Weight Loss Revealed, has made me over 50k since then just from a little $27 PDF!), when I was constantly LOOKING for answers and what I should be doing to get ahead.

I remember all the looking and investigating and TRYING to get things working …

And then, after that, for several years, I just don’t really REMEMBER worrying about growth.

Something had flicked, or clicked, and my focus became entirely about creating, content, communication.

I remember day after day speaking with and connecting with my now ever-growing online tribe … basically just hanging out online and talking with and helping and kicking the ass of fellow cool / driven women … women just like me who also happened to want to LEARN from me …

I remember continually being in content and creation mode, always with a new idea I was excited to get out, man, I was often GLEEFUL about getting my ideas out.

It certainly wasn’t about ‘I’ll do this so I can make money’, even though of course I was always vaguely aware of the fact that PART of why I was doing what I was doing was to get ‘rich and famous’ …

I remember spending time in between content and creation mode doing MORE content, always another blog I wanted to write, HAD to write, stuff I just had to say and wanted to read … and if ever my own ideas stymied for a moment, my tribe of gals would have a suggestionf or me!

I remember spending a good amount of time just sharing and breaking down what worked for ME.

“This is how I eat … this is how I train … this is how I do supplementation … etc”

Nearly a decade before I’d ever heard of the concept, and God forbid even before Snapchat told me to, I was just documenting my life.

It was fun.
It was what I genuinely wanted to be doing, all this creating and sharing and hanging out with other badass women online.
It was what I couldn’t NOT.

It just became … my thing. This is what I did, when I wasn’t training a client, or spending time with my partner or by then newborn bub.

It was what I WANTED to do, and it just flowed out of me.

So – I let it flow.

And then one day –

I looked up –

Or sat down, to be more accurate, and looked at the numbers –

And realised:


Head down. Butt up. Not chasing success. Just doing the WORK, on repeat, and then noticing that eventually, while I’d been busy doing what I couldn’t NOT, success had chased and found me.

Now, if you think I’m saying you should ignore money or not set money goals, I’m not. Since that time I’ve actively observed that the simplest way for me to make more money is to ASK for more. Aka: set the goal, align to it, believe it, claim it as done, release – and receive. Read yesterday’s blog (Surrender) for more on HOW to do that.

But here is what I AM saying, and what I absolutely know to be true and continue to LIVE by:

Don’t do what you do in your business because you want it to make you MONEY.

Don’t create, launch, communicate, offer, sell, to hit a NUMBER.

And for the love of God, don’t get into scarcity around why something you CREATED didn’t make you MONEY.

Your MONEY goal is separate to you sitting down and doing the work. This requires trust, and faith, yes. CHOOSE to trust and have faith that when you simply follow what’s within and do the WORK, and do it for its OWN sake and because you can’t NOT, that the money will flow.

If this feels too scary or confusing, let me ask you something:

How’s it working out for you right now, ANYWAY, to try and scare the money into comin’?

Okay then.

I’ve certainly made my share of screw-ups over the years, and I’ve definitely sold stuff ’cause I wanted it to make me money, but when I look back and when I look at NOW, and where my multiple 7-figure income now comes from, I can tell you for SURE:

It’s when I get lost in the work.
It’s when I’m truly doing, creating, sharing, what I’m EXCITED about.
It’s when I let myself show up with content, ideas, offers, I feel almost GLEEFUL about.
It’s when I can’t NOT.

Head down.
Butt up.

And every so often I look up, and realise:

I built a motherfucking empire baby.

Cool …

And then?


Back to the hustle.
Back to creating.
Back to having FUN.
Back to doing, ultimately, what I always wanted to do since forEVER, which is just me being me and letting you know:

Life is Now. Press Play.


PS There’s still time to get in on this … JUST!

It’s CRAZY ridiculous that I’m doing this …

Did you see?!

I’m putting together my brand NEW home-study course, “Change Your Mindset, Change Your Life”, and I want to give you first dibs at it – half off!

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Specifically, to empower you to change your THOUGHTS –



What you expect and ASSUME to be your ‘normal’ –

And as a result?

Your entire freaking life and every element within it. Or at least the ones you wanna change 🙂

Here’s the thing:

Your thoughts right now, ARE creating your reality. Everything you’re allowing to take shape in your mind, everything you ‘see’ inside of yourself or assume to be true (belief) dictates what you get to experience in life.

So if you’re EXPERIENCING lack, uncertainty, struggle, and you feel like you can’t seem to get to where you need to go, what you DON’T need is the right strategy or plan.

ALL you need is to shift what’s going on inside of you.
And your outcomes HAVE to change as a result.

They literally don’t have a choice!

Over the past several decades I’ve actively applied myself to learning how the MIND works, how to condition and train it, how to CHANGE it, so that I can choose exactly the results I want.

This has worked in my business – to the tune of creating one which brings in millions of dollars per year, where my entire job is literally doing what I love and getting paid and also ‘famous’ just for being me, working ONLY with #soulmateclients and having an epic fun time doing so.

And it’s worked in my life – everything from being able to stay in great shape with ease, regardless of passing age or having kids, to creating the home and living environment and lifestyle I really want, to basically knowing that I can ‘click my fingers’ and whatever I CHOOSE will be mine.

I can tell you that I literally have ZERO doubt of my ability to be, do or have ANYTHING that I decide!

It’s pretty empowering.

Of course it wasn’t always this way for me. In my earlier years of studying the mind, and before I really made it a MUST to change it, I found I was naturally one of the ‘more successful ones’ in life (I’m pretty fucking driven!), but I always seemed to slip quickly back down from every goal gained.

Do you ever feel that way? As though you just can’t seem to hold ON, to success?

I found it so frustrating! Continually I’d PUSH and PUSH, and spend so much money, time, energy, you name it, trying to learn what would REALLY work.

But through it all, I kept studying about mindset, and manifestation, and visualisation, and slowly but surely I built a pretty solid DAILY practice of working on my mind.

I don’t know when it was exactly, and I guess it was gradual, but eventually I couldn’t any longer ignore the fact that whenever I had BELIEFS and INNER stuff locked in to get me to my goals I would achieve them!

Whereas whenever I was TRYING to do so, or looking outside of me for answers, it either didn’t work at all or it basically didn’t ‘stick’.

Want to know the real difference here? This is basically THE secret to creating anything you want in life!

It’s DO vs BE.

When you try to DO something you’ll continually be stuck in trying. Two steps forward, one step back, if you’re LUCKY!

Whereas when you BECOME something, someone, a NEW you?

Well …

Results are automatic!
And YOU get to CHOOSE your ‘new normal’ anytime you wanna!

I can tell you that life is pretty sweet when you know that you can have WHATEVER YOU WANT, that all you need to do is the INNER work to make it happen!

It’s also something you just can’t help but want to share with others, and that’s exactly why I’m creating this home-study coursed for you. I’m deeply passionate about sharing what works so well for me, and helps me get to live such an incredible, exciting, and PURPOSE-filled life, with as many people as I can!

In fact, this is just how passionate I am about it:

Initially when I was mapping out the idea for this course in my mind, I saw it as something I would charge around $497 for. I mean, really – this stuff has made me millions. 500 bucks is a pretty small price to pay for access to that level of transformation!!

But the thing is …

Honestly …

And I ALWAYS go with my gut on pricing …

I just kinda don’t WANT to charge $497, or even $297.

In fact I don’t even want to charge $197, arguably the ‘lowest’ I SHOULD go for this level of content and deep dive work.

I settled on $149 as the price I was going to offer this at, starting at the start of the new week. Definitely a ‘hell yes no brainer offer!!’. But yet …

Still …

I didn’t feel like I was QUITE done playing around with numbers. After all, I want this to be something EVERYBODY in my online community, plus their friends, can get access to, with ease!

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* How to choose your thoughts, beliefs and even your emotions BASED on your values and desired results, not the other way around!
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* Identifying your true values, based on the LIFE you actually want to create
* How to get into permission and ALIGNMENT around what you dream of, know that it’s allowed, and gain FULL confidence and certainty that you can do it
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