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YOU’RE GOING TO TOTALLY CRUSH IT AND OWN IT. JUST FOLLOW.THE.SIGNS!

The ONE thing you can be sure of, possibly the ONLY thing you can be sure of, when it comes to figurin’ out what will work in business and how to get to where you want to go, is that you DO have to be fully you.

Unapologetically –

No holds barred –

Zero fucks given –

And also? No matter what.

It’s literally IMPOSSIBLE for you to succeed if you don’t do this.

I don’t mean you can’t make money … built a following … even RESPECT, and a whole ton of other so-called success stuff besides. Of course you can do that shit with or without following your heart and letting people see and feel the real you AND your real art.

But if you want actual success? Like – success you feel on the inside not just success that meets the approved social markers of success? You’re gonna have to give in to being you.

This seems like it should be obvious, but apparently it’s not. Because if you look around, if you start to pay attention, if you notice what people say ‘yes’ to, versus ‘I can’t’, or ‘not now’, or ‘it’s not time and I’m not READY’, you’ll see that it’s quite mind-blowingly astonishing just how out of tune people are with following their soul needs, and doing what FEELS right; what they LONG to.

And apparently, as far as most people are concerned, it’s so easy to say ‘yes sir!’ to everybody else’s commands or ideals except your own.

Listening to the voices around you, aloud or just implied, telling you –

Do it this way …
THIS is how it’s done …
This is NORMAL …
This is what you NEED …
You won’t get there if you don’t …
You HAVE to …
Stop, do this!
No, do that!

And like an obedient zombie-person, you obey.

Assuming that every other fucker out there must know more for you, about you, and about what you need.

Wanna know a secret?

I don’t write about this stuff – or any of the stuff I write about – because I’ve got this shit all nailed down.

I like to think I’m PRETTY good at following my instincts, backing myself, doing things MY way or not at all, giving in to my SOUL needs, but the truth is I can be as guilty as the next person at getting wrapped up in the shoulds, the coulds, the maybe I’ll just TRY it.

This week alone I’ve engaged in two separate conversations which would have, had I continued them, pulled me down a path of once more looking OUTSIDE of myself to get to where I want to go.

Once more, assuming that there is a ‘right’ way to do things, a done process to follow, and that the nudges I get from inside of me as to what MY ‘how’ should ultimately be are WRONG, with somebody else’s way being RIGHT.

Fortunately, as time passes, I do seem to get better and better at noticing when I do this, and it takes me usually only a day or two to give myself the swift mental uppercut I need and pull back.

And when I do, I’m always so freaking grateful for the accompanying reminder that I HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS INSIDE OF ME.

I’ve ALWAYS known I was born for more.
I’ve CHOSEN over and over again to believe that even when I had no evidence to back it up.
I KEEP on choosing to believe and also TRUST in that any time I feel stuck, or unsure, or like I’m spinning my wheels, or as though the next thing I want is SUPER next level and maybe I do need to be told how.

And ultimately this is what it comes down to, isn’t it? Trusting not only that you DO get to have the outcomes you desire, live the life you want, have it on your terms, reach even your BIGGEST dreams, but trusting also that the WAY to do that is by following your soul.

This needs to … GETS to … be taken VERY literally though.

In every situation.

Every day.

And this is where most people fail miserably, over and over, until they eventually give up the idea that being fully you and doing it your WAY is even possible.

Because here is the truth, about how life will look, when you give in to being you, and follow the RIGHT signs; the ones from within:

You’ll frequently find you have to walk away.
You might be in a social setting or supposed to go to one, or perhaps it’s a project you’re engaged in, or just a conversation, and all of a sudden you’ll get that nudge, that whisper, that pull –

“Leave”, it will say.

“Go do the thing”.

The thing being –

Your art, or your heart, or your rest, or your madness, or your digging IN, or you’re letting OUT. Whatever the damn thing IS!

And you’ll have a choice –

You can choose to say no, that’s not okay right now, that’s inappropriate or unprofessional or what will people think or ‘but I already spent so much time / money / effort on this!’.

And if you GET what success, true success, and a life and business of PURPOSE, actually takes, you’ll know to shrug.

Turn away.

And say –

“So what? This is what my soul requires right now. This is what it instructs. This is what it COMMANDS. And whilst I appreciate the reminder to be driven by fear and to create my life on should ’cause THAT’S WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE DOES, I think I’m just gon’ be over here saying yes to ME”

I can tell you that it DOES GET EASIER TO DO THIS, too. There might always be that part of you that gets pulled in by ‘should’, by CONFORMITY and by following the rules, and I suppose that’s just because existing in the normal world, even if you feel as I do that you only ever really have one foot in, does still rub off on you a little bit.

But it’s down to YOU to be strong, and to know who you are.

To back yourself.
To trust in what you’ve always thought your path, and how you’d get to ‘there’, would be about.
To PUT your true needs and desires first.
And to run run run RUN from anything which takes you away from that shit.

The sad reality is that only a VERY few people will ever do this, like REALLY do it, where it’s just how they live their lives, to follow what’s INSIDE not out.

Most people will nod, hell yes, ‘GET it’, but then continue to follow the road well traveled by EVERY OTHER FUCKING PERSON.

And so it is.
And that’s life.
And it’s plain and simply why so few people EVER do something truly extraordinary.

Never mind ever get to experience the absolute flow and fulfilment that can ONLY come from doing the work you were put here on this earth to do.

And today I want to urge you –

Draw that line in the sand.

The one you’ve been longing to.

The one you keep getting PULLED to.

The one that says ‘thank you but NO thank you’ to ANYTHING that is not an instant and absolute hell to the yes from your SOUL.

Here’s the thing –

You’ll tell yourself it’s only today, it’s only this thing, it’s only an hour, it’s just that, it’s just until, I just can’t, and so on and so forth, and you’ll create a life based entirely on what the world expects from you and what the ‘done thing’ is.

OR –

You’ll turn your back.
You’ll walk away.
You’ll learn that this is a DAILY practice.
And you’ll go do the damn thing.
You’re meant to damn well do.

Just before I wrote this blog, I listened to an audio from one of my best friends, whose name is also Kat. She knows I’m going to speak tomorrow at a killer big event here in Dallas for one of my entrepreneur BF’s, Ryan Stewman. And she said to me –

“I’m not sure when exactly you’re speaking, but I KNOW you’re going to crush it and own it!”

The timing was beautiful, as I was just about to write this blog, I knew already what my message was, but the title hadn’t yet come through.

And as I listened and smiled and felt the love and gratitude and laughter I always feel when listening to amazing audios from my amazing friends (it’s a thing we do, daily!), I thought to myself –

“You’re fucking right. I WILL crush it and own it, thank you! And the reason for that?

Is because I’ll follow what’s inside of me”

Fuck the rules baby.

You weren’t born to be ONE of them.

Quit acting like nobody told you that yet.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

PS It’s time to CRUSH it and OWN it, the way you’ve ALWAYS KNOWN YOU WERE GONNA.

You ready?
Had enough?
It’s time?!

THEN THIS MIGHT BE JUST THE KICK UP THE ASS YOU NEED!

Introducing NEW 1:1 Smackdown: “BECOME THE MOTHERFUCKING NEXT LEVEL YOU” might just be for you…

**** Places are filling FAST now! We start next week! ****

4 weeks.
You and me.
1:1 at the level of access that normally only my Inner Circle private clients have to me.

An opportunity to go deep, commit fully, get the fuck out of your own way, and BECOME THE MOTHERFUCKING NEXT LEVEL YOU now.

Every week people reach out to me about working with me in my Inner Circle. They’ve seen the success stories, the incomes that shoot into the tens of thousands per month, even 6-figures+ per month within months of working with me, and they know that they TOO are meant to play at this level.

But they’re not QUITE ready to make that longer-term commitment leap yet.

Which – contrary to what a lot of people think – I get. That teetering on the edge stage is freaking scary!!

And I want to help you leap.

So that’s why, for the first time ever, I’m opening up no-strings-attached and no holds barred, COMPLETELY tailored just-for-you 1:1 mentoring, an experience of what it’s like being in the Inner Circle, for 4 weeks of ALL IN dream life creation.

There are limited places of course …

And it HAS to be a hell yes fit for both of us, where you’re ready to hit the ground RUNNING.

Because in 4 weeks we will strip you back to the core and get clear on what’s been STOPPING you, understand and fully release it, and energetically align you to being the NEW you, the one who is DOING what she needs to be doing and SEEING RESULTS SHOW UP FASTER THAN SHE EVER THOUGHT POSSIBLE.

If you’ve been waifting for your chance to work with me at this level, knowing the Inner Circle is ‘next’ but feeling like it’s a lot further away still than what you’d like, then this is your chance 🙂

What we’ll be working on together:

* Identifying and releasing your unconscious success blocks – these are the often deeply hidden reasons you just don’t get your ass in gear no matter how many promises you make to yourself. With success blocks, even when you DO notice them and they’re not so hidden (such as sabotages) you seem to not be able to stop getting stuck in them. You despair as to why you can’t seem to grow up, get sorted, or just get over yourself. Well – there is a reason. There’s ALWAYS a reason. And we will find it and we WILL release it!

* Understanding sabotage and self-destruction – speaking of success blocks! This is about getting to the core of how your sabotages and destructive behaviours serve you, protect you, keep you feeling ‘safe’. This is one of my specialty areas, and one I deeply understand! I promise you that when you understanding the WHY behind your sabotages and self-destructive behaviours or even just ‘time-suck’ habits, you’ll be able to FINALLY move on from them once and for all.

* PURPOSE and mission clarity. No more walking around feeling frustrated and stuck because you ‘can’t quite put your finger on’ exactly what you want your life to be about. I’ll show you how to RAPIDLY get clear – crystal fucking clear – on what you’re here for. What you want. What your BIG vision is. And how to bring it to life … FAST.

* Future creation in the now. Learn how to clearly see the future you desire and bring it into the NOW, simultaneously elevating your SELF into that next level you by learning to act FROM where you’re meant to be.

* Permission. We’re going to do MASSIVE work on permission, and ownership, because I’ve seen that time and again these are the two things which MOST hold powerful leaders and creators back from bringing their dream life TO life. I’ll teach you exactly how to give yourself immediate permission to live the life you know you’re meant to be living and to take ownership over even your wildest dreams, and then see them start to come to life NOW.

* Money blocks. Plain and simple we’re going to bootcamp your money mindset once and for all and get YOU into being wealthy, abundant, able to receive with ease and from flow, NOW. I was 100k in debt and drowning in an inability to hold onto money no matter how much I made because of what I didn’t understand which I NOW DO. I can’t wait to share this with you. This shit is CRITICAL!!!

* Full-life alignment. One of the things I see with my most successful clients is that they understand that every area of life relates to every area of life. This is why over 50% of my 1:1 conversations are typically NOT about business. The work I do with my clients is about total life transformation … not just because that’s awesome, but because it’s REQUIRED. All areas get to rise together, and the more we can tune in to the small things which are ‘not quite right’ (or not at all right!) the more we can shift you into BEING a person who ALWAYYYSSSS gets what she desires and needs. So yes, we’re gonna look at all the things. Biz and money, fitness and health, love and romance, all relationships, environment, fun and adventure, more. Success is about creating your entire LIFE on purpose, and loving every bit of that life. That’s where it gets to be easy … and FLOW.

* Dream biz + life design. We’re going to map out exactly what you really want. And we’re going to motherfreakin’ create it. Next level AF gorgeous. AND? Exactly what needs to go down each day for that to happen. Aka your personalised NEXT LEVEL success plan.

*** How this Will Work! ***

Weekly deep dive audio trainings covering the above topics + a ton more.
Weekly group-based hotseats with my other private clients.
Bi-weekly 1:1 call you and me, going deep into whatever YOU need.
Unlimited 1:1 audio + messenger access for daily downloads, check-ins, emergency smackdowns, alignment tune-ups, you name it!

BONUS:

You’ll also receive the audios from my $6000 high-level mentoring “Success Mindset Apprenticeship”. This was one of the most successful and transformative 1:1 intensives I ran in 2016 and my students were BLOWN AWAY at the content. I actually thought about running it again live as it was that freakin’ good, but I knew I got to actually create something entirely new with what we’re doing here, BUT I still wanna give you these trainings!

These are 5 full-length deep-dive audio trainings + accompanying action tasks and journaling work on:

Week 1: Life Appraisal

Week 2: Absolute Commitment

Week 3: WHICH FUTURE ARE YOU WRITING?

Week 4: Managing and EXPLODING Being the Best Version of You

Week 5: Simple Biz Success, + What’s It Going to Take From Here?

PLUS: My “Self-Belief” Meditation and Guidance; powerful and critical to get you into NOW being that person who does the work!

AND: “Flipping Negativity” bonus training for you for when you have a meltdown and or are just STUCK!

There will most certainly be ADDITIONAL bonuses heading your way as well … I don’t know what they are yet! They’ll be downloaded to me as we go 🙂… and based on whatever I see you need.

My intention with this is that you GO next level motherfucking you, so my commitment and promise to you is that whatever you need from me along the way, I’ll create for you and / or dive into WITH you, 1:1.

We start NEXT MONDAY October 30, and places are strictly limited, due to the high level of 1:1 time with me. So if it’s speaking to you then I encourage you to act on that. I truly love and adore and also BELIEVE IN all my clients, and if this is a fit for us then know that I can’t wait to support you to get to where you want to be. It’s so possible gorgeous!!

*** How to Apply / Investment Options ***

PM me now and tell me why this is speaking to you. Let’s GO beautiful. This is what you’ve been waiting for. And I can’t wait to work with you at this level. Let’s make it HAPPEN!

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